Hey everyone, Melissa Stratton here, with a topic that I often get quizzed about. Yes, I am talking about off-camera sex – the real deal, happening behind closed doors and away from the rolling cameras. I hope this offers a fresh perspective and perhaps a little hope to all my male fans who have ever daydreamed, "What if that guy were me?"
There's a misperception, I think, that those of us in the adult industry are always on duty, always ready to roll into bed with a stranger. Let me dispel this myth for you. My work is just that - work. It might seem intimate, but it's acting at the end of the day. When it comes to my personal life, it's a different ball game entirely.
Quite a few of you have approached me asking, "How much to make that be me?" I've always been quite straightforward about this - I will never accept any payment for off-camera sex. It's a matter of personal integrity and respect for my private life. So, let's put a full stop to those requests, shall we?
Now, let's talk about those on-camera partners of mine. Yes, they're actors – and beautiful ones at that, with their fit bodies and large...you know what I mean. But remember, they're in front of the camera for a reason. In the dating world, having both a fit body and, well, being extraordinarily well-endowed, is far from the norm.
But don't fret, all you regular guys out there. When the camera stops rolling, I'm more than happy to snuggle up with someone who's just plain normal. You heard it right – fit bodies and large attributes are not prerequisites to win my heart.
Let's get real for a moment: if you feel like you don't stand a chance, ask yourself why. Is it because of your body, hair, self-confidence, or your financial position? Well, here's my two cents on how to turn things around.
If your body is the issue, take action! Commit to a gym routine. You don't need to be a Greek god, just healthy and active.
Is it your hair? Honestly, who cares? Shave it off! There's nothing sexier than a man confident enough to rock a bald head.
Lack self-confidence? It's not unusual. I recommend you start meditating, find peace within, and read books that build up your mindset. Try "As a Man Thinketh" by James Allen and "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill.
Financial troubles? Work on changing it. But remember, humor is the real currency. A guy who can make a girl laugh is richer than a millionaire in our books.
So, to all of you out there thinking you could never be "that guy", guess what? You probably can! You just need to believe in yourself and talk to us. Remember, women adore compliments (and I mean a ton of them!). We like feeling secure about our bodies and enjoy eating, a lot. So, tell us we look stunning and constantly offer us treats.
Off-camera sex is something I cherish but don't get to enjoy often. Yet, when I do, it's usually with a regular guy, with a regular body, and a regular sized... you got it. And trust me when I say this, it makes me exceedingly happy.
So, keep that in mind next time you're feeling a bit down about your chances. Remember, the odds might just be in your favor. Take that leap of faith. You never know what you could find on the other side.
Until next time,